Every year, Ivy Day unfurls a captivating paradox. As the eight Ivy League institutions unveil their admissions verdicts, two distinct cohorts of students emerge: those who are pleasantly surprised by their acceptance, having invested minimal effort, and those who stand in disbelief, having exhausted every avenue to secure a coveted spot. There is a reason this pattern exists each year, and the answer to this dichotomy lies within the lessons that can be learned from each group of surprised students regarding “what to do” and “what not to do” when trying to get accepted to Harvard or other top colleges. This paradoxical scenario compels us to ponder: Could the best path to Harvard (or any Ivy League institution) actually be an accidental one?

Beneath this paradox lies a profound truth, often overlooked by many students. The pattern is far from enigmatic; it mirrors the core values cherished by Harvard and other elite establishments. The relentless pursuit of admission often steers students onto a path where their authentic selves become obscured. Everything revolves around what they can do to dazzle the admissions officers. Paradoxically, it's this very mindset that can lead to rejection.

Harvard and its Ivy League peers are not on the hunt for students who are mere résumé artisans. Instead, they seek individuals who are authentic, passionate, and propelled by genuine interests and sources of joy. These students immerse themselves in activities aligned with their core values, and their achievements organically align with their passions. It's not about striving to fit a predetermined mold; it's about staying true to one's essence.

For the students "surprised" by their acceptance despite minimal exertion, their exceptionalism emanates from their core. They shine not because they intended to make an impression, but because they remained authentic. Their genuineness captured the Ivy League's attention, and they reaped the rewards of being true to themselves.

In a world saturated with inquiries like, "What must I do to enhance my chances at XYZ college?" we frequently overlook the most pivotal question: "What should I do to elevate my personal contentment, realize my true aspirations, and evolve into the finest version of myself?" The latter question holds the key to success, not solely within the admissions landscape but in life's broader canvas.

Honestly, a student is far more likely to get accepted to Harvard by doing almost entirely the opposite of everything they believe (and others believe) Harvard is looking for, as then—and only then—may a student be on a path that Harvard has never seen before. And that will surely catch their attention! Then, if a student pursues that path with relentless curiosity and determination, they will likely keep Harvard’s (or any college’s) attention all the way to an acceptance!

The lesson is clear: Refrain from losing yourself in the relentless pursuit of Ivy League admission. Authenticity and an unfeigned passion for your pursuits will set you apart more emphatically than any meticulously constructed application ever could. It appears that the finest avenue to Harvard is indeed the path of authenticity, driven by pursuits that genuinely resonate. Ultimately, it's not about impressing the admissions committee; it's about impressing yourself with the life you lead and the person you become.

So, we would like to leave all students with this: Don’t chase after and define yourself by any particular college; rather, define yourself solely by who you are, and the colleges will chase after you!